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Personal Relationships

Price on the "market of personal relationships." In life we all have our price, including personal relationships. There is such a market – personal relationships, which is sometimes called the marriage market. Any girl or young man in this market somehow evaluated. Let's have a girl, whose qualities and virtues, conditional on 'the ten'. This includes the ability to communicate, make money, be independent and other valuable qualities. Anyone who wants to be others can be seen as positive, that is celebrated all positive, and if possible not to notice deficiencies.

Therefore, any girl (young people) are trying to demonstrate its advantages. And here it begins the most interesting. The girl, of course, can find a young man whom she could manage. He has the qualities and strengths should be less about 'shesterochku', ie knowledge and skills, and valuable personal qualities, capabilities earn money, etc. objectively less.

In this case, he owes it to pay extra. What? What is the universal equivalent of reckoning in human relations? This is right. If she is 'the ten', but it cheaper – to 'shesterochku', then he she should pay more the lack of rights and responsibilities of availability. It does not have to call him, and he should call her first. She has a right to be late – he owes it to wait because he is interested in it. He has the same rights as he it wants and as interested in, respectively, it has more rights to manage them. On the other hand, the young lady pleased to lead this young man, but she wants a guy on the 'fifteen'. And then she starts understand that which the 'fifteen' – more expensive than it is: it smarter, prettier, more talented. By the way, she is '10 ', but there are still girls at '11' on '12 'and so on, it turns out, standing in line. Standard situation – the one who wants it, it does not pay attention: it is for him a 'cheap'. And who does not need it, he sticks to it. The situation of life? Nothing new has been invented, it is. The dilemma is not easy. What to do in this situation? How to live in this "market relations"? In any If you need to become more expensive. If you really evaluate themselves while the person is not very expensive, then you need to understand – what should I do to get expensive man? It's very simple: "Do you want to be near a prince – Stand princess! "What? Start with this author, psychologist, Vitaly Pichugin When you place a link to this site.